I have always been a loser in the literal sense (as to the general sense, I can't comment). I lose at basically any game I play. In fact, I can't think of the last time I played a game I was better at than those around me. I don't win at card games, I don't win at computer games, I don't win at sports- in general, I just don't win.
I think that is why I react differently than my brother Glade. He really wants to win, and he usually does, because he is very driven and talented; when he doesn't, he can become angry and then will try harder the next time. I don't have the drive he has, and so even though I want to win, I tend to be more embittered and disgruntled than angry and demand a rematch. I find more and more that I don't really enjoy playing with other people, because every time, I lose. Sadly, I find that I am not mature enough to handle that, even though I thought by this time I would be able to.